In much of Asia, the Middle East and parts of Europe, there is a tradition of removing one's shoes before entering a home.
I've adopted this custom.
Sure, there are practicalities: guests don't track in toxins, dirt or pollen; hardwood floors stay scratch-free.
But the practice goes deeper.
Slipping out of one's street shoes (and possibly, into slippers provided by your hostess), is a sign of respect. It can also promote a more relaxed atmosphere. Some even suggest it helps guests leave their worldly cares at the door.
I've hung an especially polite, pretty sign outside my door as a gentle reminder. Find it at Flopping Fish, http://www.floppingfish.com/product.aspx?pid=618.
Along with a quick glance downward, guests usually agree to shed their footwear in support of an revered age-old, worldwide custom.
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Dear Suzanne,
ReplyDeleteI tried the link but it didn't open. I would really appreciate finding that oretty sign since i feel shy to ask my guest to shed their foot wear:)
s.o.s
Just a little explanation if I confused you. Mirkena is my albanian given first name. Maryam is what I mostly go by...So I kind of baptized my self out of necessity long ago when I married my husband and his family (the whole turkish community in fact) could not say my name right. But I like it because i got to choose a name for my self:)How many people can do that?
ReplyDeleteLove you
maryam