No Shoes. No Problem.

In much of Asia, the Middle East and parts of Europe, there is a tradition of removing one's shoes before entering a home.

I've adopted this custom.

Sure, there are practicalities: guests don't track in toxins, dirt or pollen; hardwood floors stay scratch-free.

But the practice goes deeper.

Slipping out of one's street shoes (and possibly, into slippers provided by your hostess), is a sign of respect. It can also promote a more relaxed atmosphere. Some even suggest it helps guests leave their worldly cares at the door.

I've hung an especially polite, pretty sign outside my door as a gentle reminder. Find it at Flopping Fish, http://www.floppingfish.com/product.aspx?pid=618.

Along with a quick glance downward, guests usually agree to shed their footwear in support of an revered age-old, worldwide custom.